REAL FRIENDSHIP

how does a friendship consider as a real friendship?

does it means that a bunch of people always fooling around together?

always having fun together?

creating trouble for themselves or others???

or much much more!

for me I don't think so...(just telling what I felt...not offending anyone here!)

well for me I will just ask you guys a very simple question...

do you really think that these kind of friends as I stated just now will help you when you are in any trouble? I would say NO! sorry! there might be some...but in a very small probability...right? think probably...you might feel as I felt as well...

people can have fun together...

no matter you are close or not close...

HAVING FUN! who will reject? no one...if it's free especially...

so...when you call them when you want to go out to have some fun, watching movie, shopping and a lot more! they will consider about the finance...but still they will have the temptation on going out as well...so as a result they have the feeling wanting to go out...except if they are lazy or tired...that could be a different cases...what I'm saying is when they are free, financially well...sure they will wants to have fun...although it's costly sometimes!

but if you need help...then you shouldn't be expected much...

if you "belanja" them "yam cha" or go cyber cafe for DOTA...mostly it will be a YES! but if it's about your life problem...

they will always have problem that is bigger than yours...

and they will be telling that your help is needed more for them!

so...

if someone out there tells me how good their friends are in inviting them out clubbing, shopping, movies and lot more other than helping, caring, accepting you on what you are then you better don't tell me anything...

it's just about having fun, sharing fun, giving fun...

not giving help, love, care...

so think probably...

making friends are good and fun...

but making wrong friends will just make you feel more miserable and more troublesome when your are in trouble...even though it's just a small problem!

well..here's it is...

still got many to write....but fell very sleepy...so I think I will just stop here...><

never know never knew!